IntroductionThey feel they have a right to be treated as a person, that they have individuality and are talented enough to be appreciated. They are not just anybody, but they feel that they are only tolerated, that they have to adapt to others to be accepted. They are not really seen, heard and accepted. They are just there for others who do not have time or respect for them. They feel they have to please others all the time and then they hope that the others will see them.
This state is often exaggerated in their youth where their parents were too busy with their work or themselves or the many other children to see them. They were just one on the list. Due to not being seen, they retire on their own, sit silently in a corner and think their own thoughts. They have their own world view, are very creative and bright, but that also is invisible or not appreciated. They lack the space and air to really live their own life. They can do it in their mind, but are not given the means to manifest it in reality.
Invisible, not heardThey have the feeling they must adapt to the situation, to the family. They feel that their own needs are ignored. They are totally invisible. They just are part of the group and they have to adapt and do their job. The leader, which is often the father, is very domineering and strict. There is no place for their own projects and desires. In contrast, they have a strong desire to be on their own, to be themselves. They feel inferior and need compliments to feel better. They are worse from criticism and the opinions of others.
No spaceThey have the feeling that there is no space for them that they have to shrink, make themselves small so that they will not and cannot be seen.
They can have dreams and situations where their space is invaded by others. People use their house against their wishes. Others can come and go uninvited. Their own space is taken over or invaded. Other members of the family take their space or they dream about others invading their house. They can also have the feeling of disappearing, and then they take no space at all anymore.
MindInvisible, not heard.
Pleasing, adapting, < being only half accepted.
Having no space.
Cannot say no, cannot set boundaries.
Nervous excitement.
Sympathetic.
Ailments from being dominated by family, father, husband.
Profession: psychologist; alternative therapist
GeneralSensation: pricking, aching, constricting, raw, shooting.
Physical: < motion.
BodyThroat: constriction; thyroid adenoma, hypofunction, hyperfunction.
Lungs: asthma, wheezing, hoarseness, emphysema, bronchitis; cough.
Male: impotence.
Female: infertility; menses problems.
Back: backache; difficulty keeping themselves erect, to stand up for themselves.
Limbs: pain bones and muscles; arthritis.