EssenceThis personality feels having a place in the family and society, but they have to give to keep that place. They have to adapt and please others in order to be accepted as a full member. This can arise from a situation where one parent accepts them fully and the other is just taking them for granted. Their insights and wisdom are often not recognised as they are too modest about it.
Invisible, not heardThey have the feeling they must adapt to the situation, to the family. They feel that their own needs are ignored. They are totally invisible. They just are part of the group and they have to adapt and do their job. The leader, which is often the father, is very domineering and strict. There is no place for their own projects and desires. In contrast, they have a strong desire to be on their own, to be themselves. They feel inferior and need compliments to feel better. They are worse from criticism and the opinions of others.
No spaceThey have the feeling that there is no space for them that they have to shrink, make themselves small so that they will not and cannot be seen.
They can have dreams and situations where their space is invaded by others. People use their house against their wishes. Others can come and go uninvited. Their own space is taken over or invaded. Other members of the family take their space or they dream about others invading their house. They can also have the feeling of disappearing, and then they take no space at all anymore.
MindSensitive, seeing the states of being of others.
Pleasing, adapting.
Timid, modest.
Ailments from being dominated by others, family, father.
Ailments form criticism, excitement; grief.
Working for others, family. friends.
Feeling not heard, not seen, not respected or rewarded, ignored.
Desire to be independent free, go their own way.
Cannot say no, cannot set boundaries.
Interest in spirituality, self development.
Nervous excitement.
Pleasing!!; sympathetic, soft, timid, modest.
Energy: weak, injured; timid, impotent; coward.
Sexuality, impotence, frigidity.
Sad.
Delusion: being invisible, unseen, not heard, small.