EssenceThey feel they have a place in the family and society, but they have to give to keep that place. They have to adapt and can only be half themselves. They please others in order to be accepted as a full member. They long for compliments and confirmation, but feel that they do not get. They are very sensitive, see and feel what others are doing and feeling.
They want to be someone special. They are ambitious, but often lack the power to really put themselves in front. They are too timid and modest to put themselves in the front row. On the other hand, they have enough inner power to achieve a lot.
Invisible, not heardThey have the feeling they must adapt to the situation, to the family. They feel that they are not seen or heard, that their own needs are ignored. They are totally invisible. They just are part of the group and they have to adapt. The leader, which is often the father, is very domineering and strict. There is no place for their own projects and desires. In contrast, they have a strong desire to be on their own, to be themselves. They feel inferior and need compliments to feel better. They are worse from criticism and the opinions of others.
No spaceThey have the feeling that there is no space for them that they have to shrink, make themselves small so that they will not and cannot be seen. Their own space is taken over or invaded. They can also have the feeling of disappearing, and then they take no space at all anymore.
MindAilments from being dominated by others, family, father.
Ailments form criticism, excitement; grief.
Working for others, family. friends.
Feeling not heard, not seen, not respected or rewarded, ignored.
Desire to be independent free, go their own way.
Cannot say no, cannot set boundaries.
Interest in spirituality, self development.
Nervous excitement.
Pleasing!!; sympathetic, soft, timid, modest.
Energy: weak, injured; timid, impotent; coward.
Sexuality, impotence, frigidity.
Sad.
Delusion: being invisible, unseen, not heard, small.