EssenceThis personality has a problem with rules and norms of the family and community. This originates often in a strict upbringing with punishments, emotionally and or physically. The parents force those rules onto their offspring out of the idea that that is needed to belong to the community and thus get protection from them. He has the feeling that he cannot be himself and will only be accepted and appreciated when he adheres to the norms and rules.
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Aspleniales the focus of the control is more in the family. Also the breaking of rules with all of their consequences is more in the family, with parents, siblings, and family-in-law. The problem can also come from events in the ancestry, as can been revealed in family constellations.
A way of escaping the rules is going into autism, Asperger and retardation.
A recent form are clashes and fights in families about following the rules around the Corona disease.
They miss a real, warm, accepting family. As a solution they can search for another form, such a clubs. They become member of a sport club or carnaval club. They have their club in the local pub. A special from is finding a family in religious groups, especially rigid ones, like Jehova’s witnesses. It is like husband who has little contact with his wife and flees into a hobby with friends.
MindDelusion: I will lose my family if I don't follow the community rules.
Delusion: I will be lose my family if I follow the community rules.
Feeling unappreciated in his family.
Missing family, so trying to fit it somewhere else, in churches, clubs.
Ailments from discords in the family, between parents or between siblings, later between friends.
Ailments from being rejected by family and friends.
Speech retardation.
Aversion to cooperate in work, jobs, responsibility.
Unappreciated, unloved in his family, one only has to follow the rules.
Autism.
Communication problems, lack of contact, eye contact, language contact.
Retardation: physically in motor development, emotionally, in speech.
Anger, rage and temper tantrums when there is chaos, when their expectations are not met.
Repetitive behaviour.
Restless, jumping, running, in circles, head banging.
Prefers to stay at home, aversion to go to school.
Fear: darkness, alone.
BodyGeneral: ailments from trauma, pregnancy and labour problems, vaccinations.
Growth retardation.
Genital: retardation.
Abdomen: liver problems; worms, parasites.
Rectum: diarrhoea; constipation; encopresis, averse toilets, in children.
Urinary: enuresis.