EssenceThis personality has a problem with rules and norms of the community. This often originates in a strict upbringing with punishments, emotionally and or physically. The parents force those rules onto their offspring out of the idea that one needs to belong to the community and thus get protection from them. He has the feeling that he cannot be himself and will only be accepted and appreciated when he adheres to the norms and rules.
They get the feeling that their existence is a problem. They feel unwanted, too much a burden for their parents, giving problems between parents, and himself. He gets the idea that his being, his existence is the cause of the problem. It can be that a parent wanted a child of the other sex. They can feel guilty just because of being alive.
In extreme situations this can lead to autism. They flee into their own space, their own home, their safe base, and lock others out.
It is the state of behaving normal in society, but inside feeling as a hurt child.
MindDelusion: one is the cause of the problem.
Delusion: I will not survive if I don't follow the community rules.
Delusion: I will not survive if I follow the community rules.
Feeling unwanted and unloved, < divorce of parents, < having the unwanted gender.
Feeling guilty of living.
Autism, Asperger.
Communication problems, lack of contact, eye contact, language contact.
Head banging, automutilation.
Restlessness, repetitive behaviour.
Difficult toilet training, incontinence for urine and stool.
Desire touch, contact, cuddling, hugging.
Sleepless, < without parents.
Very withdrawn.
Speech retardation.
Sensitive to noise, especially crying children and babies.
Aversion to cooperate with people, to communicate.
Overly control, everything has to go as they want and think. monomania.
Lack of control, physical, bodily, incontinence, toilet training.
!! Retardation, in motor development, speech, toilet training.
Aversion to become adult, and take on responsibilities.
Anger, rage and temper tantrums when there is chaos, when their expectations are not met.
Retardation, physically, emotionally, in speech.
Problems with toilet training.
Addictions. alcoholism.
Repetitive behaviour.
Restless, jumping, running, in circles, head banging.
Fear: darkness, alone.
BodyGeneral: growth retardation.
Nervous: cerebral palsy, < labour injury.
Genital: redardation.
Rectum: encopresis.
Urinary: enuresis.