EssenceThis personality lives a family where they have to work hard for the parents. There is a deep connection of having to survive together, but there is only superficial emotional contact. They see no other options than to stay in the family, feeling insecure outside.
MindWolf family, with alfa wolves having offspring, the other wolves not.
Family with children and grandchildren, but they are living together, mixed and also not mixed, not communicating.
Reproduction.
Children not allowed to leave the family.
Stick to your roots.
Don’t give in to your own desires.
Parents distant, not really making contact, authoritarian.
Big farm, many children.
Parents busy, children have to help, keep the farm running.
Two sided, connected and distant.
Clumsy, dirty, not in order, filthy.
They do their best to keep it in order.
The family is in debt, poverty, having to pay for the debt.
Children are looking up to their parents, not understanding things, just going on, not understanding why.
Poor land, mountain or marsh land.
Children ask if they are doing things right.
Feeling small.
Phase 2,
Phase 3,
Phase 5.
Not questioning their parents, because they get answers like “It is so because I say so”, “This is how it is”, “I know better how it is”.
Children fearing to lose their roots because then they will not survive.