ConceptsMagnesium: adapting, pacifism; aggression; fear of loss.
Sulphur: love, hate; partner, marriage, spouse, husband, wife; relations, friends; jealousy; beauty, grace, harmony; clothes, cosmetics.
EssenceThe idea that the partner will not love you if you get angry. Fear of getting angry, out of fear of losing his love or his loved one. They therefore keep their irritation inside. But because of the held-in irritation, they lose contact with their loved one. The irritation starts to come between them.
They start to project their irritation on to their partner, and all sorts of little reactions of the partner will be seen as anger. They get the feeling that their partner is always angry, trying to obstruct them and making life difficult for them.
Or they have to show their aggression to their partner, otherwise the partner might leave. They feel that they have to stand their ground and keep their partner under control, otherwise he or she might start to look for another. There is often a strong jealousy. They have to show who they are in order to be acceptable to the partner.
MindFear of losing his love or his loved one when angry.
Irritation suppressed, held-in, in order not lose loved ones.
Irritation starts to come between loved ones.
Cat and dog relationships.
Parents always fighting.
Shrinking, obstructed from an angry spouse.
Adapting to an angry irritable husband.
Angry to their partner, to prevent him leaving.
Strong jealousy.
Show who they are in order to be acceptable to the partner.
They are afraid of aggression, and especially their own aggression. They are afraid that they won’t be loved if they get angry, that their partner will leave them. They start to suppress their anger and this can even go so far that they don’t dare to ask for anything they need. They will become full of bottled-up anger and cannot give or receive love any more.
Later on the suppressed anger and frustration may show itself in irritability. They get irritated with their partner over all sorts of trifles. They may start to ask forcefully for proof of the partner's love. They might say things like: 'You don’t love me, otherwise you would have bought me some flowers more often'. By that time, however, the partner has lost any inclination to bring any flowers. The times that he did bring flowers he was snubbed by: 'I suppose you bought those flowers to pacify me, because you have fallen in love with the woman next door'.
The aggression can also be used to try and keep the partner. The partner keeps doing his or her best to cheer them up, with only occasional success.
The aggression may also come out in a great burst of anger, usually misplaced, which leads to renewed anger or remorse. It is the classic cat and dog situation. You could say they don’t fit together, and they can't leave each other.
There is also a general fear of aggression, of horrible stories. They would rather not watch violence on television.
Jealousy is very strong, with a fear that things will go wrong after all and that the partner will leave.
But they still have a great desire for warmth and love. They keep searching for this and they keep dreaming of marriage.
Fears and hyperventilation.
Depression.
Colour preference: 23-24E, 20-22E, 20-22D.
GeneralsTemperature: < heat
Perspiration: copious, < night, chest and back.
Time: < 5 am-7 am.
Desire: sweet, meat, drink, alcohol, spicy.
Aversion: eggs. < fat.
Sleep: not refreshing
Physical: < > lying on the back; < driving.
BodyCramping !! and burning pains.
Migraine.
Hyper-thyroidism, hypo-parathyroidism.
Complaints of stomach and liver. Severe pains. Gallstone colics !!.
Diabetes.
Affections of heart and vessels. Irregular heartbeat.
Diarrhoea, yellow slime, stinking.
Enlarged prostate.
Limbs: cramps, calves, feet!; and weakness of the muscles.
Skin: inflammations, boils; warts; eczema, re, itching, arms.