EssenceThis personality feels alone, left alone, pushed aside and unappreciated. He tries to make contact via norms, how it should be, how it is ordained by society or religion. This can go to the extreme in partner relationships, where they feel they have a right to love and sex. They can feel they have done their part of the deal of living together and the partner has to fulfill their part of it.
They try to find arguments for their position in science, religion or whatever, without looking at their pain, which can arise from an upbringing with lots of norms and rules but no real love.
MindShe asks for an embrace.
Alone, disrupted from contacts.
Contact is there in essence, but not in reality.
Unable to live up to it in reality, cannot resolve the lost contact.
Friends twist themselves into all sorts of corners.
Disrupted unity even as a child.
Twists and turns and tries to turn away from problems.
Already disrupted as a child, although there is attachment.
There are three siblings, one curls up, the other moves aside.
There is not much focus on beauty, it is very austere.
Everyone hangs together, you fight with each other and you don't know why.
It feels unsafe.
They don't come out of it, don't take care of themselves, stay stuck and can't develop.
Clinging.
Running away, turning away.
They can't resolve it.
Very sensitive.
Relationship problems.
Lack of friends; unable to make contact.
Lonely, feeling an an outsider, as if he was missing something.
Reserved, on his own, not expressive, unemotional.
Culturally rigid ideas, norms; emotionally flat; lack of empathy.
Anger, held in.