AnalysisObvious autonomy in learning
Equal autonomy in friendship
Harmony in communication
Harmony by learning
Harmony with friends
Complete autonomy between friends
Brother is self-satisfied
Sister is self-centered
Spiritually satisfied by friends
Spiritually in harmony with friends
Obvious autonomy by learningThey have reached autonomy through learning. Experience of the world is essential for them to find the center and depth of themselves. They like to travel, discover different cultures, meet people and exchange emotions and ideas with them. The world is for them to experience that they are the center and that they are free to do what they have to do in the world. They’re free to experience whatever and with whom they want and need. When they cannot travel or learn, they start feeling out of harmony. The world feels out of balance when they are out of contact.
Equal autonomy in friendshipThey like to be friends but it has to be as equals. They like to have friends who are autonomous, so that the communication is in harmony. The friendship has to have a balance. They often feel the person on top, as one who is successful. So it’s difficult for them to find equals, which makes it difficult to have deep friendships. The difficulty in friendship can also arise from the fact that they have an aversion to superficial talk, gossip and hypocrisy. Communication has to go into the depth of things in order to bring things into balance.
Brother is self-satisfiedThey can have a brother who is obviously very good and autonomous. He doesn't seem to be bothered by the problems of others and can leave them be. Or their brother is so autonomous that it’s difficult to be with him. It’s too unequal to have good communication with their brother or sister.
Spiritually satisfied by friendsThey can get a desire to develop themselves. They can become psychotherapists or follow the path of a guru. They need to discover their inner world and get that under control. They often want to do that together with friends. They want to have a deep contact with them and discuss their inner world with them. This gives them the feeling of being in harmony with themselves, the world and their friends. To learn from their friends means that everyone is equal.